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The Year That Should Not Be Mentioned

Mel Kelly • Oct 21, 2020

Hello I’m Mel.

The Mel behind Mel Kelly Cakes and Bakes and this is my first foray into the blogging world so you’ll have to forgive my amateur ramblings at this stage. It’s been a fair (ahem) number of years since I did any form of writing since my GCSE English Language days, albeit it certainly doesn’t feel that way. The 90s were 30 years’ ago?! Surely not.


So here I am, it’s 2020 and what a year this has been! At the start of the year I was working within addiction recovery services and at no point did I imagine that, fast-forward nine months, I would be surrounded with icing sugar, cake boxes, and sugar paste, sat designing and making cakes! Why the change I hear you say?


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I decided to put my life-long passion and hobby into something more

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I do not think that I am alone in saying this year has been difficult. In fact, I am probably joined by most of you in saying that we have all had our unique challenges this year. Mine started when I was completely burnt out from working within mental health and addiction services and in May this year I lost my job. Initially I was devastated and with the schools shut and still under lockdown, there was little chance of me being able to get another job. But after every dark night comes a bright day, so I decided to put my life-long passion and hobby into something more and went ahead and set up Mel Kelly Cakes and Bakes.


Brick Masquerading as Bread

Not only do I wish to use Mel Kelly Cakes and Bakes for the as the name suggests, cakes and bakes, I aim to offer baking workshops to people in recovery from mental health difficulties and addictions (when Covid restrictions allow!). Baking is extremely therapeutic, and I will openly admit that having faced a number of difficult times throughout my life, baking has been a go to activity for me. It uses all the senses (taste obviously being a good one) and the step by step process and repetition involved makes it an extremely mindful activity. It’s a great way to escape from life’s stressors, take a step back and focus on the here and now. The bonus being at the end, you’ve made something lovely from scratch. Whether that be bread, cupcakes, cheesecake, a three-tiered cake spectacular or a homely apple turnover. Learn to laugh at yourself though and your baking fails. My first ever attempt at bread was well, not great. In fact, it would not have looked out of place in a scene from Murder She Wrote with Angela Lansbury’s lightbulb moment at having determined the murder weapon. It was a brick masquerading as bread.



So then, whilst baking and cake decorating are both my recovery tools and my passion (after my children of course!) they are now my bread and butter (couldn’t resist!) and I hope to use my blog to share recipes, cake decorating techniques, the ins and outs of running a cake business and my aim to get my workshops up and running.



There are a number of things I have learnt during ‘the year that should not be mentioned’; that there is beauty in simplicity, there is community and friendship in the smallest of gestures, and that our relationships with others are so important. A simple cupcake left on the doorstep of a neighbour for no other reason than to remind them that they are not alone. Which is why for me cakes are so special. You cannot help but smile when someone gives you a cake!


Mel x

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By melaniekelly2017 08 Nov, 2022
Hello dark nights...!
By Mel Kelly 28 Sep, 2021
...so that was summer then! So I'm guessing we bid farewell to Summer, short-lived as it was. That said, we have had a beautiful September and I did think that I would have packed the kitchen fan away by now. As I write this there is a definite chill in the air this evening though and I have been part-tempted to put the heating on. However, given recent headlines about energy costs this winter I think the thermostat will be locked away with instructions to the kids of 'put a jumper on' if anyone complains of being cold...even if we are already wearing three jumpers, a vest and a dressing gown!! It has been a very busy summer period with lots of wonderful cakes, cupcakes and cookies made for birthdays, thank you gifts, anniversaries and weddings. So as we say farewell to summer I would like to thank all my customers for their continued custom and cake ideas and here is a poem I found by Stanley Kunitz which I'll leave right here. Mel xx End of Summer An agitation of the air, A perturbation of the light Admonished me the unloved year Would turn on its hinge that night. I stood in the disenchanted field Amid the stubble and the stones Amaded, while a small worm lisped to me The song of my marrow-bones. Blue poured into summer blue, A hawk broke from his cloudless tower, The roof of the silo blazed, and I knew That part of my life was forever over. Already the iron door of the North Clangs open: birds,leaves,snows Order their populations forth, And a cruel wind blows.
By Mel Kelly 24 Aug, 2021
Weddings are back ! It has been fabulous to finally get to create wedding cakes this year after 16 months of planning headaches for all concerned ! There is something amazing about being able to design, create and set up a wedding cake and then stand back and admire. I offer consultations either via telephone, Zoom or face to face over coffee at the Upside Down Cafe in Blackpool, sketches of the design and the best part, cake samples from a current choice of 11 different flavours from traditional brandy fruit cake to more modern flavours such as salted caramel or white chocolate Baileys mud cake.
meringue kisses
By Mel Kelly 04 Nov, 2020
A simple meringue recipe to try at home.
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